Pool sex has an undeniable allure. But is it ever really as sexy as it is in the movies? The truth is, while it can definitely be steamy, pool sex does come with a few logistical challenges. There are three main issues you should watch out for: lubrication, irritation and infection. First up, as you might have experienced during foreplay in the shower or bath, "the water in the pool will likely wash away your natural lubrication," says Kate White, M. There's a dark irony to this: "Being surrounded by water makes you drier inside, so intercourse may be more uncomfortable," White says.
1. In general, public bodies of water are pretty dirty.
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However, there are risks to be aware of. The waterfall of your shower can encourage you and your partner to get close — and we mean really close. Showers give you a great opportunity to test out standing positions that you might not be able to do when having sex on a bed or couch. Shower sex is also great for solo play. Make use of your alone time by discovering what feels good for you. Using an anti-slip shower safety mat can give your feet extra padding and traction. Standing sex may be difficult to navigate at first — especially if you and your partner are different heights — so consider this entry-level move. In fact, bathtub sex can be a great way to get physically closer to your partner.
2. Water can wash away your natural lubrication.
Underwater sex sounds pretty epic, right? I mean, there are so many hot, iconic movie scenes that involve sex in water, so…. But yeah, water sex is one of those things that looks way, way better on screen than it actually is IRL. There are just a few issues you should know about Sure, you're probably not getting freaky in a hospital-grade bed anyway, but bodies of water can carry some pretty gross bacteria like E. That includes pools and hot tubs with improper pH levels, rivers, lakes, oceans, etc.
From horror stories about infections and rashes to romanticized hot tub trysts on shows like Riverdale , you've likely encountered a lot of conflicting information about whether or not it is safe to have sex in a pool or hot tub. In an effort to set the record straight, I asked two experts to help clarify the myths and truths about underwater sex. The answer to the safety question is more nuanced than a simple yes or no, but if you do choose to get intimate in a pool or hot tub, there are certain precautions you should take and potential risks to be aware of. Megan Stubbs, a board-certified sexologist with degrees in biology and human sexuality, says some sexual activities are safe for pools and hot tubs, but not all. Here's what else you need to know about the downsides and possible dangers of having sex in water. It's a known fact that latex is susceptible to weakening from extreme hot and cold temperatures, so the heat of the water in a hot tub could compromise a condom's effectiveness, according to Stubbs. Having sex in water also doesn't decrease your chance of getting pregnant. Yes — contrary to what you might think, having sex in water actually hinders your natural lubrication, which can lead to more painful sex.
